I AM Amenra adom

Did you know that 90% of people don't have a healthy outlet for their emotions? That can lead to anger, frustration, and even violence. Basketball gave me that outlet. It gave me the space to express myself, channel my energy, and find my strength.

This is more than a basketball guide. It's a blueprint for life.

It's the wisdom I learned from my journey, from the struggles I faced, and the lessons I learned. It's the blueprint I use to coach myself, to stay focused, and to perform at my best. This is about becoming a professional student-athlete, not just on the court, but in life. It's about developing the skills, the discipline, and the mindset to succeed in everything you do.

I never tried out for any basketball team. Instead, I was caught in a web of wrong choices and bad decisions that led me to criminal court. It was a stolen credit card, a naive act of friendship, that spiraled into a potential 55-year sentence. Facing the judge, I knew I was alone. My friends, my family, my support system; no one else. I was the only one facing jail time.

That fear was overwhelming. But then came the relief, the unbelievable reprieve of probation. I knew I had to turn my life around. But my path to redemption wasn't smooth. I found myself alone in Georgia at 19, separated from my family who moved to Brooklyn. Probation was a constant shadow, a reminder of my mistakes. I had to make a promise to myself. I had to be great or at least better than I am now. 

I enrolled in college in New York as a junior at 22 years old. I found myself drawn to a new path, one that introduced me to the Law of Attraction and a profound shift in perspective. I'm not going to lie, my life changed. Then came an unexpected opportunity. The head coach, also the marketing professor, recognized me; and saw something in my eyes. "Do you play basketball?" he asked.

This time, I thought, "I'm going to change the narrative."

"Everyday I Am Responsible" is a collection of more than 365 observations of thoughts, feelings, and emotions mirroring the power of inner guidance in my life. Throughout my experience of life, I have discovered that at the establishment of my happy experiences living as a human being, lies self-responsibility. My most profound goal is to awaken the light within all people that reside within their spirit utilizing uninfluenced thoughts, feelings, and emotions. I am in charge of the bliss I want in my life, and of late, in this lifetime, we as a whole people are seeking happiness rather than being happy. We are human beings, not humans trying, spirits having human experiences, and such, this enlightenment has sparked the title of this book.

It’s titled, “Everyday I Am Responsible" because every day I have truly focused on experiencing the limitlessness in my life and through profound edification, can no longer complain about my life or the people in it. I am responsible for this. Human life to me, human life to me, from the earliest starting point of times to the present world has dependably appeared to be founded on the evidence of human thoughts, emotions, and feelings, however, I've never comprehended that anyway, I've never grasped that these were truly enrichments from a light within us that we, 'as people's have strayed from.  

Where do our thoughts, emotions, and feelings go when the human body expires? This inquiry has guided me to a light that consumes from deep within and makes my reality. I've aligned my Chakras to experience life, both the good and bad experiences, and the harmony between the two. To share my significant enlightenment with my brothers and sisters of this world, I have and continue to capture still depictions of my thoughts, feelings, and emotions and relate the similarities of my counterpart's life experience by listening to their thoughts, feelings, and emotions to convey them in a formally dressed language. 

“I Am You and You Are Me”. 

Think of F*** it as a mental pressure release valve, letting go of the pent-up frustration of unfulfilled dreams and untapped potential. It's the spark that ignites your courage, the "yes" to the unexplored path, the key that unlocks the door to a life overflowing with possibility.

But why "F it"? Why not a more polite, less provocative phrase?

Because sometimes a jolt is exactly what we need. It's the honest acknowledgment that playing it safe isn't always the winning strategy. "F it" injects a dose of humor into the equation, reminding us not to take ourselves too seriously. It's a lighthearted rebellion against the status quo, a reminder that the most unexpected choices can lead to the most transformative experiences.

This book is more than just a philosophical exploration of "F it." It's your roadmap to navigate its transformative power. You'll discover relatable stories from people who dared to say "F it" and improved their lives. We'll equip you with practical strategies to break free from your comfort zone and embrace the thrilling unknown. And to keep you inspired, we'll sprinkle in a healthy dose of humor to remind you that even the most unexpected challenges can be hilarious opportunities for growth.

Here's a sneak peek at the adventures that await:

Escape from Comfort Zone Island: It's comfy, sure, but it's also a breeding ground for stagnation. We'll show you how to build your raft, paddle out to sea, and embrace the magic that awaits on the other side.

Unlock Your Inner Superhero: We all have greatness within us, but fear and self-doubt often act like kryptonite. Learn how to silence your inner critic and unleash the amazing person you were meant to be.

Find the Funny in the Fumbles: Life throws curveballs, but you can turn them into hilarious and empowering experiences with the right mindset. Learn to laugh at the chaos and find the silver lining in every situation.

Craft a Life You Love, Not a Life You Like: Forget chasing fleeting trends or societal expectations. It's about creating a life that aligns with your passions and values, a life that makes you feel truly alive.